Friday, 17 January 2014

Planes...Trains...Ships...and Vans... oh and Busses too...part 3

Hi and welcome back :)
...back to our 2008 holiday...

Next we boarded what was then one of 2 cruise ships with the grand title of 'Largest in the World'...

Royal Caribbean's 'Freedom of the Seas'...

passengers : 3600
crew : 1300
160 000 tons
15 Decks



Once again this 'boarding' was an exercise in HECTIC...
due to small kids...pensioners...a pram and  a car-seat
but it was oh so exciting too...




Were we in for a treat!!!
EVERYTHING about the Freedom was magnificent... there is no other word for it...
our state-room...the food...the entertainment...the decor...the service...all A+
Her maiden voyage was in 2006...  and so she was in pristine condition inside and out...and has since been refurbished in 2011.


What people who are not familiar with cruising need to understand is that it's a floating hotel resort holiday...
with stunning views that are ever changing...food for my soul...
and it's exactly the kind of holiday you want...you can do as much or as little as you wish...
lie around reading from sunrise till sunset or keep busy...VERY BUSY... you will NEVER get through all this ship has to offer...there is just no way... she has something for everyone...
what more could one ask for or need or want...NOTHING...

Cruising is THE IDEAL holiday for families ... and i do mean kids of all ages...
take it from me...i have been on one cruise before we had babies...
and five since...one while 7 weeks pregnant with Brandon which was when Bianca-Leigh was 2 years old...
and Bradley was 18 months when we sailed on the Freedom...to sum it up i have been cruising with toddlers...tweens...teens...and with morning-sickness...i have done it all...with a smile on my face!!!
But then it must be said...i have a totally awesome husband...who i can totally count on for help...


I will let the photos tell some of the story...



a view from one of the many lounges...


plenty of stairs...but also ample and very efficient lift services...
and a all round safe environment...to relax and have tons of fun in :)  



she dwarfs another ship... that sticking out bit is the Jacuzzi...it was huge and was situated either side of the Freedom...in a section of pools where no children were allowed...and Edwin and i stole just a few moments to go sit and relax in the warm waters overhanging the ocean...COOL   



the main dining-room could be accessed from 3 decks...
there was also plenty of more casual eating places with food of a very high standard...
 and loads of stunning variety...   



I enjoy the sea breeze on our private balcony...



where there were 2 chairs and a little table...
behind Bradley is his pram...
and the glass doors lead into our state-room...
which slept all five of us very comfortably.



smile :)




Bianca-Leigh is like a second mom to Bradley...
and there hidden behind them is that car-seat we lugged halfway across the world...
it was a must ... a bothersome must :)
just like his indispensable stroller... 



sleep :)


walk...

Brandon and Bradley take a stroll out on deck just as the sun is about to set...
it doesn't get better than this people :)


beautiful :)




she watches over him in the baby pool...




a stranger kindly offers to take a photo of us...
Brandon was off having fun away from us at the time :(




the AWESOME H2O ZONE
super cool fun for kids







this ship is so big...that at no point do you feel cramped...and the cruise was fully booked...



this deck was the 'Promenade deck'...
it ran the length of the ship just about...and it felt like a mall...
with shops and eating places...like we needed any more eating places...
one thing i will admit again...is that my obsession with photography had not come to full strength yet...
in fact i do believe i hardly shot any photos...this holiday would have been documented VERY differently if i were to go right now...but i had Bradley very much 'on-my-hands' 'on my mind' and 'on my heart'...
so the photos are not great but ok...they do tell the story :)


the kiddie pool was warm water and only that deep...
with very very strict hygiene rule that were enforced...  


he loved it :)



holidaying is hard work Mommy...





at every turn there was something cool to be discovered on this ship...


Bradley started walking early like at 9 months [all my kids did]
so on this holiday he was truly 'walking strong'...
and it caused people to get excited at seeing this tiny human on this big adventure...
and they would try to talk to him or approach him and he would totally freak-out and not in a shy way...
lol he had a good case of 'stranger anxiety' 



one of the things i was worried about when we were planning this holiday was what Bradley 
would eat...i was still breastfeeding him...but he clearly needed more than that...
all passengers eat REALLY WELL on a ship... and Bradley was no exception...
it was on this holiday that i realized just how much he loves to eat fruit...
he basically lived on it...that and some dry cereals...cold meats...soups...and salads...
here he is eating chunks of salmon in one of the more casual dining areas...
and LOVING IT :) 



the pools were all lit up at night...lovely hey...
to take this photo i put down our video camera on a deck chair...
we took a few shots and walked off leaving the camera lying there...
it was with great distress that we South Africans remembered what was forgotten and
practically ran back sure it would no longer be there...all our precious holiday memories lost forever...
how wrong we were...
i don't think that would have happened here in SA...sadly




this was the area where no kids were allowed...not even to walk through...
i thought that was  a bit much...but there was so much for kids to do that it didn't present a problem at all...



each day when you got into the lift for the first time you were greeted by the day of the week...
very helpful and a cute idea :)



an ice-rink at sea...a firm favourite with Brandon :)


other things to do...
the theater where various shows and performances took place day and night...
the wave-rider...where you could learn to surf...
the totally decked-out games arcade...
disco for underage teens...
art gallery
daycare for the little kids...we didn't use this...
rock-climbing wall...
basket ball court...
golf simulator...
shuffle-board games...
ping-pong tables...

and probably a few activities i have forgotten about....or don't know about...





Our destinations were interesting to say the least...but life on board is what it's all about for me :)
you only get to see a little slice of life on land and that's enough...

*I didn't go onto Grand Cayman...i needed a break from travelling with kids... so i kept my kids with me and skipped the travelling... we spent a peaceful day at the H2OZone...resting in the shade...
and playing in the pools :) bliss...





*The island of Labadee [Haiti] was the first swim in the sea for Bradley EVER...not too shabby hey :)



I think this shot is amazing because in the forefront we have Brandon and in the background we have
the Freedom :) cool ...




*Ocho Rios [Jamaica] didn't impress me...not even one tiny little bit...






*Cozumel [Mexico] was nice enough...  



the larger Freedom is on the left...BIG hey :)



me and the kids :)


we were in a shop looking around...warning the kids not to touch and break anything...
trust Brandon to do this lol but i had to quickly take a shot :)


then this happened ... too cute :)
my little LoveBug...




and then it was all heart breakingly... over... 


and we were back to traveling with kids...pensioners...the stroller and car seat...

It was time to catch a bus...
my Dad is walking behind me and you can just see Edwin's late Dad sitting there on that bench...




that's us on the bus...on our way...
to pick up our van for our journey to Orlando Florida...
to that magical place...Disney World...


one last look back...
it was a sad moment to see our ship and know we were leaving her...
Bianca-Leigh actually refused to disembark...her feet remained planted at the very point you cross over from the ship onto 'land' and she looked up at me and said..."I'll get off if you promise me we'll come back again one day..." and she meant it and i do so hope i'll be able to keep my word to her...with all my heart actually :) 



and then i looked forward...
eyes facing forward watching the road that would take us forward...
 onward to Orlando....and the magic...






Bits and Bobs...
*the Freedom now ranks 4th in the world of Largest Cruise Ships...
*the chocolate-chip-cookies on the ship were large enough to feed a family of 5 :)
*my Dad drank iced-tea from the self-service drinks station for days...thinking that the Coke in the US was watered down and flat...
*the bathroom in our state-room had a malfunction on the formal evening of all nights...and although it was promptly sorted out...the kids and i had to use my Mom's bathroom to shower...
*we had a few funny moments of getting lost and Brandon thinking he knew his way around better than us...not...
*the lifeboat drill is taken VERY seriously and was rather difficult for me with Bradley...i had to wear the life-jacket and couldn't hold Bradley easily and he was a little freaked out by the goings on...
*my Mom got lost and sat down on the stairs a had a good cry...
*we ate and ate and ate...so good...
*i had to feed Bradley in my evening dresses in the bathrooms...fun...not...but that's breastfeeding for you hey :)
*my late father-in-law won money in the Casino ... enough to almost cover the cost of their cruise...
*lastly i just want to mention that...travelling...hormones...kids...pensioners...strollers...car-seats...luggage watching, carrying, pulling...packing...unpacking...taxi rides...hotels...fire-drills...tours...boarding ships...and so on... can really make the most sane person a little loopy ...on our first night on the ship...Bradley had a meltdown and was crying and crying...inconsolably ...it was more than a little scary for this mommy and i convinced myself that he might be seriously ill...off we rushed to see the ship's doctor ... and on our 'little' walk to find the doctor Bradley stopped crying and i calmed down and left the doctor in peace :) this was the only episode of this kind for the whole holiday thankfully :)
*and so much more happened...what an epic adventure for us intrepid travelers :)


coming soon...
our time in Orlando Florida

Wednesday, 8 January 2014

Joy shot-through with sadness...

Hi ...

After a whole day and night of excitement concerning Bianca's results...
I just want to take a few moments...

Because the truth is that all this time my joy has been shot-through with sadness...
It's lovely to be happy with her and for her...
IT IS...

but

this post is for the others...

the one child in our school who didn't pass :( i feel so bad for you...whoever you are...
i hope you know that it's not the end of the world...and that you can recover and still succeed...

the child who got 8 distinctions but lost both her parents in an accident...
how cruel life can be...I hope you will be ok...

the girl who Matriculates and her dad is no longer with her...
your Mom is so brave...
your Dad would have been so proud...  

the one family i know of  who recently lost their young adult son...
and had to survive their first Christmas and New Year without him...
i am so sorry for your loss...i don't know how you did it...

the one family who also lost a young son to suicide just a few nights ago...
my heart broke when i heard the news...too sad for words :(
how do you go on...?

Mamas having to say goodbye... as precious children go off to study...
but take heart Mamas...hellos are sure to follow... soon i hope!...

there are others... too many to mention...

My heart aches for all of you...
i think of you all so often...


 Please Lord God...
draw close to all those suffering...
there are so many Lord...
give them shelter from the storm...
comfort them as only You can Father...
amen




Post Script
I had to write this post because i was hurting in my own way too...
my hope is that now i will have peace...
that in letting these sad feelings become written word...
 i will be able to let go...






Monday, 6 January 2014

My daughter and her friends part ways here BUT goodbyes are meant for hellos...

Something else comes up... before that Caribbean Cruise post i plan to write soon...
hello and welcome...

In a small way i envy those who decide before something even happens...just exactly how they feel about things...  because 'they' seem so 'on the ball' don't they....they use their heads...

I am not one of them...I decide without much thought at all...
 how I feel... when something is happening to me...
The difference must be in how we decide...I am ruled by my heart...
And my heart causes me some trouble along the way...

This is a defining moment...a moving on and ever forward moment...
a hard moment...
Their paths will all go in different directions right about now...
my daughter and her friends part ways here... at this seemingly unavoidable fork in the road...
High School is behind them and the open road of Life lies before them... calling each one by name...
some are only stretching young as yet untested wings... but others are bravely leaving the comfort and safety of the nest... and their first shaky flight is causing considerable worry and tears all round ...

even for me...
AND i get to keep my little chick for a while longer... but. my. time. will. come.
... and that's why
 i am having sympathy pains for the other Mamas i know who are facing a motherhood moment that must hurts like hell...





    
This is how things stand right now...
Tomorrow we get Bianca-Leigh's Matric results...
My palms just broke out in a sweat...my fingertips leaving wet little dots on the keys of my laptop...

Bianca-Leigh had a rough first 2 terms... working hard but not getting the expected good results...by that i mean...you would be forgiven for assuming that her marks would be of a high standard because she put in real effort... this was not how this story went  :(  it was SO heartbreaking to hold her while she sobbed...speaking hushed words hope love and pride...my words meant to take the sting out of hers while my heart tried desperately to find an encouraging thought in my dazed mind to grab onto and hold onto for dear life... at first i tried to hide my own tears... to be strong...but in the end i cried too...a tear just slipped out over and down...there is another one now... both eyes filling up and overflowing as i remember that day and that  broken conversation in her little car [where else...?] more than 6 months ago...    and to watch her bravely recover herself... work harder...try again... it was inspiring stuff... my pride grew along with my respect for her...

a quick thought here...
why does the glory always go to those that 'things' come easily too...
why doesn't the glory go to...

 the fighter
the underdog...
the  nerd...
the soft hearted one...
the honest one...
the loyal one...
the small one...
the gentle one...
the loving one...
the brave one...
the respectful one...
the humble one...
the peace maker...
the one who isn't vain...
the meek one...
the rule follower...
the one who always does right over wrong...
the one who doesn't cheat...lie or steal...
the one who forgives and forgets...
the one who turns the other cheek over and over...
the one who sacrifices...
the one who fights the good fight but fails anyway... 


That's not the way the 'world' works...HEAVEN WILL BE VERY DIFFERENT...


Back to Bianca...
Dread cut like a cold sharp stone in my chest...
 when my mother's mind turned to what the rest of the school year would hold for her...
but without us even realizing it at the time...we had hit rock bottom...almost burnt-out... 
 and now we were on our way back up...the climb had already begun...
her prelims went fine and her finals were without incident...
yes... she couldn't go back and check her answers [like she is used to being able to do]
 on some papers due to time running out...
and there were a few tricky questions here and there...
but on the emotional front all was well with her...

She worked harder and longer than i have ever seen anyone work...
and calmness and peace was hers...
You just can't give more than your best now can you..!

now all that's left to do is wait...





...BREAKING NEWS...
at 10:30pm tonight we got Bianca-Leigh's Matric results...
she has passed with admission to Bachelors Degree...

I am one PROUD Mama tonight...
God is good :)






Sunday, 5 January 2014

Our final Justin Bieber adventure...for now anyway...

hi :) and welcome back ...

While i am in the middle of  writing the story of our epic holiday of 2008...
this happened yesterday...





and i want to write about it...so stay tuned for more on the Caribbean Cruise side of our holiday soon...
read... when i get time :)


I have blogged about Bianca-Leigh and Justin Bieber and me here…

and here…

and this may be the last post about 'us' for a while...


Yesterday we took her to see his latest movie...the one about the concert her and i went to see
 on Mother's Day in 2013
While it wasn't even half the epic-ness we lived through that day in May :) it was the full-stop...

she was so excited...
Beliebers have such a bond with each other... and him...
they are in a state of constant connected-ness...
always.

The movie was great and shows Justin in all his human-ness ...
The cinema was quite full and added to the atmosphere...which is what Bianca wanted...
the girls cheered every time Justin took off his shirt...
there was talking and laughing... and tears...i cried too...
and they clapped hands when the movie ended...
now you don't see that every day...!

and his message is clear...
believe that you can be ANYTHING you want to be
work very HARD and you will be victorious...
GIVE back when and where you can...
don't believe everything you read/hear about him...
stay humble...


DARE to dream...because dreams DO come true :)




She takes a photo of our ticket...

for her [and me] it's a little bit of real time 'history in the making'... 
it's the making of memories for a beautiful life...
and isn't that just how it should be...well that how i want to raise my children...
to have beautiful lives...
oh how fondly her and i will talk and laugh about all these adventures one day...
and when her child too has a dream...Bianca-Leigh will remember that we
were prepared to go to great lengths to see her happy...to be happy with her...
that in the big dreams and the little ones...we were right there by her side...
and she will know what to do...